Looking at the actions of the men and women of ancient Greek mythology, it is sometimes easier to come up with the people involved in the betrayal than who betrayed whom. One of the forum members posted a good description of what we need to look for in an ancient betrayal:
- ". . . the interesting thing about betrayal is that it is almost entirely born out of expectation and a sense of contract and obligation to NOT behave in a particular way." - Chimerae
1. Jason and Medea
Jason and Medea both violated each other's expectations. Jason had lived with Medea as her husband, even producing children, but then put her aside, saying they were never married, and that he was going to marry the local king's daughter.In retaliation, Medea slew their children, and then flew away in one of the classic instances of a deus ex machina in Euripides' Medea.
There was little doubt in ancient times that Medea's betrayal was greater than Jason's.
2. Atreus and Thyestes
Which brother was worse? The one who engaged in the family sport of cooking children or the one who first committed adultery with his brother's wife and then raised a son for the purpose of killing his uncle? Atreus and Thyestes were sons of Pelops who himself had once been served up as a feast to the gods. He lost a shoulder in the event because Demeter ate it, but he was restored by the gods. Such was not the fate of the children of Thyestes whom Atreus cooked. Agamemnon was a son of Atreus.3. Agamemnon and Clytemnestra
Like Jason and Medea, Agamemnon and Clytemnestra violated each others' expectations. In the Oresteia trilogy the jury couldn't decide whose crimes were more heinous, so Athena cast the deciding vote. She determined that Clytemnestra's murderer was justified, even though Orestes was Clytemnestra's son. Agamemnon's betrayals were the sacrifice of their daughter Iphigenia to the gods and bringing back a prophetic concubine from Troy.Clytemnestra (or her live-in lover) murdered Agamemnon.

